Allah is close to you

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

“when we remember Allah by glorifying Him, being conscious of Him and thanking Him, He remembers us by answering our prayers, protecting us and guiding us throughout our lives”. Dr. Bilal Philips.

Dear sisters,

are you Sad?

Talk to Allah.

talk to Allah don’t talk to people, don’t confide to others about your sadness. but sadly nowadays mostly sisters listen to the music to solve their sadness. do you know sisters? listen to the music when you sad is not solve your problem at all. it makes you wild, music can’t control your emotion but it leads you to be more sad and sad. it makes you commiserating yourself. so leave the music, leave your sadness. take wudhu then pray, recite Al-Qur’an, talk to Allah. He will solve your problem. as long as you talk to Allah even crying. you feel more tranquillity. in sya Allah.

are you Happy?

Praise Allah.

remember, whatever your condition, your feeling. always return to Allah. even when you Happy. don’t be arrogant. when you Happy you leave Allah, you forget Him but when you sad you crying and talk to Allah. Allah said in Qur’an:

[All] praise is [due] to Allah, Lord of the worlds -” (Al-Fatihah 1 : 2)

“And whatever of blessings and good things you have, it is from Allah” [al-Nahl 16:53].

At the same time though, Allah provides us a way to escape that punishment by being thankful to Him. He says,

“Why should Allah punish you if you have thanked (Him) and have believed in Him. And Allah is Ever All-Appreciative (of good), All-Knowing” [(An-Nisa : 147)].

well, sisters may Allah bless you all. praise Allah and always thankful to Him when you Happy cause the blessing and can help us recognize that we already have enough of what many people have for long been yearning for. make us to be more humble. also by being thankful and praise Allah when you Happy, He will give you more and more. in sya Allah.

Allah says:

“And (remember) when your Lord proclaimed: ‘If you give thanks (by accepting Faith and worshipping none but Allah), I will give you more (of My Blessings); but if you are thankless, verily, My punishment is indeed severe’” [Ibraaheem 14:7]

do you have Problems?

Ask Allah for Help.

remember, everything in this world is belong to Him. so whatever your problems ask Allah, ask Him to help you. don’t ever ask people to help you. ask people about your problems makes you more confused there is no solution. why? because as a human we have different opinion about something, It is seen when we tell our problem, then our friend listen to it and they gave us solution sometime we cant accept easily, because our arrogance even we like to commiserating our selves rather than listen their solution. or even they gave us wrong solution that makes us more confused and sad with our problems. so sometime ask people about our problems can’t help us at all. return to Allah, ask Him for Help. He will solve your problems and Help you.

It is You we worship and You we ask for help.” (Al-Fatihah : 5)

are you Depressed?

Cry to Allah.

Dear Sisters, whatever your condition, your feeling, your problems. talk to Allah, always praise Allah, Ask Him for Help and cry to Allah. Allah is close to you. Allah always available. Allah will help you, Allah solve your problems. Allah bless you, in every situation.

conclusion.

sometime we are arrogant, we forgot that Allah is close to us, we like to ask people, talk people before we return to Allah. we put Allah in second option. we forgot that everything in our lives is belong to Allah, everything that we have is from Allah, every happiness and sadness too. indeed, when we feel that Allah is far. it’s not Him who far from us but we make distance with Him so every problems that we face feel so heavy and hard to solve. sisters, put Allah as your priority so your life will be easy. in sya Allah.

 

don’t be arrogant

Dear Sisters,

when you go to the Masjid and you see a sister with figure hugging clothes, full on makeup, nails done etc, don’t for a moment think that you’re better than her just because you wear the correct Jilbab/Niqab. Don’t for a moment wonder why she’s in the Masjid dressed up like that.
The Masjid does not belong to you. The Masjid is the House of Allah. EVERYONE is welcome. Pious ones, sinners, those seeking repentance or looking for a sense of direction. Who are you to limit it to anyone?
Rather than eyeballing that “modern” sister, remember this could be the first time she came to the Masjid. She could’ve been at some haram place but she chose to come to the House of Allah for a reason. Or she could be a regular at the Masjid. Or maybe she comes from a jahil (ignorant) family.
Maybe she’s a revert, a sister just beginning her journey to Islam. Maybe she hasn’t even reverted yet but is learning about Islam & thinks this type of dressing is more befitting than being half naked. Or maybe the sister knows all the rulings of Hijab but struggles in implementing them as she has weak Imaan.
Get up, leave your gang of Hijabi/Niqabi sisters. Make this sister feel welcome. Advise her in the BEST manner. Not in front of everyone. Take her to a side so not to embarrass her and then advise her in private. Honour her. Don’t humiliate her. Befriend her. Give her your number. Maybe all that sister needs is good company.
Remember Allah may forgive her for her sins but He won’t forgive you for your arrogance. Do not fall into the trap of Shaitaan and ever think you’re better than anyone.

Are you strong Muslimah?

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

You are not strong woman if you can’t keep calm when people mocking you. When you upset once after people gives their opinion about you (your place, your dress, your work, etc). When you panic once after you know bad news. When you get angry immediately before you hear the true reason. When you dont want to accept commentary. When you block your friends once after they do something you dont like. When you think that you are better than them. When you’d rather confide about your problem to people than to Allah. When you complain and complain.

Dear Muslimah (may Allah bless you), married is easy, being solehah wife is easy but how to be best mother for best generation is the most important duty for us. It’s a big issue that every one leave it. Dont focus on yourself how to be solehah only, how to be success woman before married. But focus on how to be strong muslimah. To build new generation better than our generation. If you only think about yourself you’ll become a foam on the ocean. 


So how to be a strong woman?
Control your emotion, manage your ego, submitted your problem only to Allah swt. Confide to Him. Recite Quran and read the translation then use it in your daily life. you’ll Be strong muslimah. Strong muslimah means, positive thinking, productive, brave to show your identity then action. Strong woman is kind and humble with people. so what the action means? the action is the best action who comes from best believe, best words and best thinking. show people your power your identity, your dedication for your country. so what’s the best word? best word is when you can control your tounge and think before you give an opinion. because the best word comes from good mind. then 
What do you think? Dream. What’s dream? To build new generation.

So dont focus to “how to get married” just because everyone around you push you. But focus to “how to be best mother for best generation” we have to prepare it Because the country needs a strong woman, to create new generation. Because Good woman only for good man.


Dont give up and wake up!!!!
Jazak Allah khair

 

Love your religion bigger than your country

two days ago I post about it on my facebook, below:

“some of foreigner asked about the election of Jakarta, they thought we hate non-muslim but this is the fact why we avoid them to be leader in Jakarta or even in Indonesia.

The election of Governor and Vice Governor of DKI Jakarta in 2017 make sure to take a lot of attention not only the citizens of Jakarta, but the entire Indonesian community and even the international world, both through print and electronic media.

The victory of muslim jakarta, then become victory Muslim Indonesia. The defeat of Muslims in Jakarta, then the defeat of Muslims in Indonesia and even Muslims in the world.

We must be literate on the situation that must make us have a great spirit of struggle for the safety of Indonesian wholeness that the majority of the population is Muslim.

Take the example of singapore, imitating the style of lee kwan yew before coming to power in singapore.

Wear caps, go inside mosque, build madrasah. After coming to power, in just 5 years indigenous of Malay was eliminated.

Melayu’s village is drag, forced to move to flat. Learn from Singapore. Learn from countries where the majority of Muslims are now lost, expelled, excluded from their own land.

O people of Indonesia, especially the people of Jakarta. Awakening from the fear, the strength of the unity and the unity of the majority Muslim community in Indonesia is everything.

Become a more intelligent jakarta community, who want to turn into a leading society with a quality of faith that can not be bought cheaply.”

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then a day after I post it, there is someone from Singapore give her comment. she look so angry, because yeah she is singapore malayan. I knew far before I post it on facebook, that it would be bother her but as you want to know, I post it on facebook not because I am indonesian, then I want to compare with singapore. NO!! NO!!

I post it because I love my religion, I love Islam more than anything. I want to share to public on facebook, I want to share to muslim around the world. that we are muslim, don’t let non-muslim lead us in our own country, our land, because we are majority here. don’t let them take our country once after they got their position.

I just want them open their eyes, open their mind and heart. that non-muslim leader is haram for muslim.

as Allah said in Al-Qur’an in some ayah:

surah Ali Imran : 28

“Let not believers take disbelievers as allies rather than believers. And whoever [of you] does that has nothing with Allah, except when taking precaution against them in prudence. And Allah warns you of Himself, and to Allah is the [final] destination.”

surah An-Nisa : 144

“O you who have believed, do not take the disbelievers as allies instead of the believers. Do you wish to give Allah against yourselves a clear case?”

Al-Maidah : 57

“O you who have believed, take not those who have taken your religion in ridicule and amusement among the ones who were given the Scripture before you nor the disbelievers as allies. And fear Allah, if you should [truly] be believers.”

surah At-Taubah : 23

“O you who have believed, do not take your fathers or your brothers as allies if they have preferred disbelief over belief. And whoever does so among you – then it is those who are the wrongdoers.”

surah Al-Mujadilah : 23

“You will not find a people who believe in Allah and the Last Day having affection for those who oppose Allah and His Messenger, even if they were their fathers or their sons or their brothers or their kindred. Those – He has decreed within their hearts faith and supported them with spirit from Him. And We will admit them to gardens beneath which rivers flow, wherein they abide eternally. Allah is pleased with them, and they are pleased with Him – those are the party of Allah . Unquestionably, the party of Allah – they are the successful.”

Ali Imran : 149-150

“O you who have believed, if you obey those who disbelieve, they will turn you back on your heels, and you will [then] become losers. But Allah is your protector, and He is the best of helpers.”

Al-Maidah : 51

“O you who have believed, take not those who have taken your religion in ridicule and amusement among the ones who were given the Scripture before you nor the disbelievers as allies. And fear Allah, if you should [truly] be believers.”

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it’s clear in Qur’an that Allah forbid us to do not take non-muslim as a leader.

not because her leader (in singapore) free from corruption, not because her goverment better than ours. no.. but I just want muslim around the world think and open their eyes their mind. and understand the fact of that issue and understand islamic law. we have to obey our Lord Allah swt than our president, king or queen. don’t let we love them until they control us. even eliminate you (muslim) from your country until you become minority in your own country.

I share it on facebook to make people understand and open their eyes, that we are indonesian muslim, do not want to loss our country. we don’t want non-muslim eliminate muslim from indonesia then become minority.

but I see, she loves her country more than her religion. if she loves Islam more than her country, she will understand and open mind that is true. her muslim in her country eliminated by non-muslim leader. 5 years after he got his position in her country.

yes this is fact that her country better than my country, but look! it under non-muslim control. do you love non-muslim control you?

Dear Muslim, we have to open our eyes and mind. it’s time for rise and take our victory again. this is the end of this world. so where we will return? we’ll return to hereafter, we will leave this world, so don’t put our heart to this world. don’t let our heart love this world and blind our eyes from islamic law.

Men and Women

**The purpose of creation of men and women

Allah said in Qur’an:

“And I (Allah) created not the jinn and men except they should worship
Me (Alone).” (V. 51:56)

“Rather, worship [only] Allah and be among the grateful.” (V. 39:66)

“Say (O Muhammad !): ‘Verily, I am commanded to worship Allah by obeying Him and doing religious deeds sincerely for His sake only.” (V. 39: 11)

 

**Equality of Men and Women as regards Religious Obligations and Retribution.

And whoever does righteous deeds, whether male or female, while being a believer – those will enter Paradise and will not be wronged, [even as much as] the speck on a date seed. (An-Nisa : 124)

Whoever does righteousness, whether male or female, while he is a believer – We will surely cause him to live a good life, and We will surely give them their reward [in the Hereafter] according to the best of what they used to do.(An-Nahl : 97)

The believing men and believing women are allies of one another. They enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong and establish prayer and give zakah and obey Allah and His Messenger. Those – Allah will have mercy upon them. Indeed, Allah is Exalted in Might and Wise.(At-Tawbah : 71)

Indeed, the Muslim men and Muslim women, the believing men and believing women, the obedient men and obedient women, the truthful men and truthful women, the patient men and patient women, the humble men and humble women, the charitable men and charitable women, the fasting men and fasting women, the men who guard their private parts and the women who do so, and the men who remember Allah often and the women who do so – for them Allah has prepared forgiveness and a great reward.(Al-Ahzab : 35)

**Biologically Men and Women are two different sexes but complementary
to each other:

One may well ask that if there is such a complete and comprehensive spiritual
equality between the two sexes, why is this identical treatment not found in
other rights, duties and privileges. Muslims and especially non-Muslims
question why men go out to work while women are encouraged to stay at
home, why women have to wear the Hijāb (veil), why a brother receives a larger share of inheritance than his sister, why a man can be a ruler but a
woman can not, etc., and they then conclude that Islam treats women as
inferior beings. Laws can never be discussed without being explained first, so
we must first consider the fundamental Islamic ethos that men and women are
two different yet complementary sexes. It is an established medical fact that
men and women have different biological compositions and temperaments.
Allah the All-Mighty created and knows this biological difference better than
we do, and has thus assigned to men and women the roles that each excels in
due to its nature. Neither gender is inferior or superior to the other; instead they
complement each other like the two halves of a whole. In everyday life we see
that society consists of many different kinds of people, all of whom play their
particular roles to keep society intact. The farmer and the doctor make different
contributions to the society, but both are equally important. Each excels in his
own field, and each provides a service for the other. Similarly, men and women
are different sexes and play vital roles in their own areas of excellence.

 

*source : Dr. Suhaib Hasan

 

when is my turn?

nowadays Married is quite big problem for women. as we know world female population is more than male population.

In the USA, women outnumber men by 7.8 million. New York alone has one million more females as compared to the number of males, and of the male population of New York one-third are gays i.e sodomites. The U.S.A as a whole has more than twenty-five million gays. This means that these people do not wish to marry women. Great Britain has four million more females as compared to males. Germany has five million more females as compared to males. Russia has nine million more females than males. God alone knows how many million more females there are in the whole world as compared to males.

few days ago a woman told her problem, of course it’s about married. she worried because her family push her to get married, her friends always ask about it. the problem is she doesnt have boyfriend or even candidate.

It was narrated from Aishah that: The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: “Marriage is part of my sunnah, and whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me. Get married, for I will boast of your great numbers before the nations. Whoever has the means, let him get married, and whoever does not, then he should fast for it will diminish his desire.”
(Sunan Ibn Majah, Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1846)

Dear Sister, your problem is depend on how you face your problem not the problem itself. the reasons we’re unhappy is we think too much. Keep your mind away from negative thoughts and people. Positive thoughts go a long way. don’t pay attention for people say about your personal life (especially married).

when people try to harm, try to say things. don’t be worried about what the world will utter about you. they have to say bad things, it’s their test. because the devil is around making everybody jealous. you know the truth you know your life, why you so sad? you can’t block the mouths of the people. people will say what they want, don’t worry about what people have to say they will continue saying things, dont even look at it. just smile and carry on.

instead of think about what people have to say better you turn to Allah and try to be a good Muslimah.

not being married gives you more time to learn from married couples and their mistake, learn the deen (religion) and become a better person, doing dawah projects which would not be possible if you were married.

the common question is “when is your turn?” then you will think “why Am I still not married?” yes why???? then when is my turn???

Dear Sister, so why?? why? yes why are you still not married?

first, because you are not ready yet. Allah knows you are not ready yet. Allah wants you to learn a few things before you get married. second, Allah wants you to accomplish certain things before tying the knot (marriage). third, to save you from any heartache. imagine if you were to get married straight away. you wouldn’t really appreciate the need for a partner and how life sucks without them. imagine the pain if you were to get married, have a kid, then get divorced, then the case goes to court. after all of that you end up heartbroken. may people don’t get want to get married after that. so to save you from all of that, Allah is just saying “WAIT”

so how do you go about getting married?

  1. Approach your parents, have a conversation with them.
  2. make dua, you cant do something as big as this. “sincere heart and righteous dua are two armies that can never be defeated.” – Ibn Taymiyyah
  3. you work on yourself, you perfect yourself. make yourself ready to get married.

Dear Sister, focus on pleasing Allah not pleasing everyone. ask to Allah your criteria of your future husband, just ask to Allah don’t be afraid of making dua, everything belongs to Allah and your future is in His control. as you know that good woman only for good man. so perfect yourself especially your deen, your inner beauty. as long as you do better for yourself Allah will answer your dua and give you the best partner. in sya Allah.

Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, “A woman is married for four things, i.e. her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be losers.
(Bukhari Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 27)

“so be patient, indeed, the promise of Allah is truth” (QS. Ar-Rum : 60)

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People ask me,
Why are you single? You are attractive, intelligent and creative.
My reply is
“I am overqualified” hehe

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How beautiful woman in Islam

“If you educate a man, you educate an individual, if you educate a woman you educate a family.”

The reason is that man gets busy in earning his livelihood and in other affairs of life getting education and training. Therefore he is left with neither any opportunity nor leisure to work for the correction and reformation of the other members of the society. On the other hand, Allah has created woman totally different from man. When she grows up and emerges as a wife or mother leaving behind the stage of daughter or sisters. She develpos warm and passionate love with her husband and children. As Allah has endowed her with the capacity of efficaciousness, he has also blessed her with the quality of influencing others. As she conquers her husband with her sweet and kind temper and her coquetry, she influences her children many times better than it due to the deep abiding bond of motherhood. that is why a thinker says “The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world.” and only that woman can be the true ruler who is properly educated and trained.

Aisha bint Abu Bakar RA Umm-Al-Mu’minin (Mother of Believers). is the lucky woman who was born and bread in Abu Bakar’s house and got elementary education from there. She is that model lady who, during her adolescense and youth got, special education and training under the kind supervision of the affections and compassions of the preceptor of minkind Rasulullah Muhammad saw. She is that fortunate and sagacious woman whose curriculum of reading was revealed from the skies which was designed and arranged by Allah, the creator of the universe. The point of meditation is what would have been the status of the great character, magnificense of the attributes of learning and morality, and height of the perfection of personality who had undergone these three blessed and sacred factors in order to obtain education and training.

it’s a fact that every mother wishes to educate and train her daugther in a way that not only her own personality but also all the good traits that can be found in the world of possibilities, may be reflected in her being so that she may look a complete model of effeminacy. certainly, Aisah RA, the mother of all the true Muslimah who is embellished with all the sterling traits of head and heart, also yearn to see all of her own attributes in all her sons and especially in daugthers.

in Islam seeking knowledge is obligation for every Muslim. Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Seeking knowledge is an obligation upon every Muslim.”-Sunan Ibn Majah 224.

Abu Musa (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, “The guidance and knowledge with which Allah has sent me are like abundant rain which fell on a land. A fertile part of it absorbed the water and brought forth profuse herbage and pasture; and solid ground patches which retained the water by which Allah has benefited people, who drank from it, irrigated their crops and sowed their seeds; and another sandy plane which could neither retain the water nor produce herbage. Such is the similitude of the person who becomes well-versed in the religion of Allah and receives benefit from the Message entrusted to me by Allah, so he himself has learned and taught it to others; such is also the similitude of the person who has stubbornly and ignorantly rejected Allah’s Guidance with which I have been sent.” [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]
**Commentary: This Hadith has already been mentioned, and is repeated here to highlight the eminence of knowledge and to induce Muslims to gain it. We learn from this Hadith that there are three categories of people. First, those who acquire knowledge of the Qur’an and Hadith, act upon it and also impart it to others. Such people benefit from this knowledge themselves and extend this benefit to others also. By virtue of this quality they are the best of all. Second, those people who acquire knowledge and impart it to others, but do not fulfill the requirements of that knowledge. Such people are inferior in rank to the people of the first category and can be taken to task for their omissions. Third, those who shun the knowledge of the Qur’an and Hadith. Neither they study and hear the two themselves for their own benefit, nor do they acquire knowledge to impart it to others for their benefit. This is the worst category of people. Every Muslim should try to be in the first category of the people

so as long as education, training and correction on the part of women is not started, no real progress can be possible, no success can be achieved and no reformation of the society can be effective. as a Muslimah it necessary to seeking knowledge especially in our religion. because we are the first school for our new generation and we produce the best generation for this world.

so How beautiful woman in Islam? when people said Oppressed, inferior, and unequal to them. Instead Islam raised the status of Muslimah by give them education. In Islam women and men are equal (also in education). Allah clearly states that all humans are equal: “To whoever, male or female, does good deeds and has faith, We shall give a good life and reward them according to the best of their actions.” (Quran Surah An-Nahl : 97)

So Muslimah (may Allah bless you), woman in Islam is important position in this world. do not believe that yourself is below anyone just because you are Muslimah, just because you are wearing Hijab/Niqab. do not believe that your Hijab/Niqab limit your ability, limit your world.

Education is the power. Education is education and it’s the right of every human being.

Be an Educated woman!!!

 

*source : Riyadus Saleheen, O Muslim Sister, Maulana Masood Azhar., whyIslam.org.