when nudity and semi-nudity is so common

at that time me and my friend walked past a group of hijabi sisters who sit together in queue. some of them mocking me “ah why you have to use niqab?” then my friend said “why?”
what’s your business to say like that?

Yeah, Nowadays when nudity and semi-nudity is so common, covering yourself with modesty is something different, people will hate you, mocking you and gives you negative attention. they mocked me but not those girl. why? yes because I’m different, they thought I’m fanatic, I took Islam seriously. they claim wearing loose Hijab and Niqab means going back to some prehistoric period. but all those things only makes me prouder to be identified as a muslimah. Alhamdulillah

sisters, no matter how straight you walk, you will always find those who will criticize. don’t give up no matter how hard they criticize you, remember that your life is yours and you live here to please your creator not His creation. May Allah grant us steadfastness, ameen.

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My niqab experience

Nowadays mostly people are worry about niqabis. some of them thought that niqabis are fanatic or even terrorist. even my friend in university said “people see the niqabis are fanatic or even terrorist, because once they decided to use niqab then they don’t want to blend in with the others”.
it’s not fair. it’s subjective. because you never will be known someone or some groups without know each other. it’s only the hater’s opinion.
in fact my friend doesn’t worry about me about my niqab. they don’t feel I’m different. even some of them support me.
why?
because they know me, they know who I am.
in the other case, the day before ramadhan,I was visited museum with my friends. when I walked around the whole museum’s area. someone passed by then mocking me “Ninja”.
what the hell did he say? NINJA???
ya Allah
did I look like ninja?? Lol
even yesterday when I visited bandung in west java Indonesia. at that time I walked around with my friend, we only two separated with another friends. once after I took some picture I passed by a group of hijabi sisters who sit together in queue. some of them mocking me “ah why you have to use niqab?” then my friend said “why?”
what’s your business to say like that?
but none of all those story that I upset with them. I don’t care. because I knew they hate me, that’s all.
remember, No matter how straight you walk, you will always find those who will criticize your slanted shadow!
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my photo in Bandung west java with my friends, my co-worker exactly.
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this photo when I walked around museum with my friend.
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this photo also in Bandung west java before some hijabis sisters mocking me.

Niqabi sisters

nowadays mostly people are worry about niqabis. some of them thought that niqabis are fanatic or even terrorist.
sisters, If you have made the intention of wearing the Niqab, Allah will help you- despite your family’s or societies disapproval. What is our purpose in life? To worship none but Allah and this also means to be obedient first and foremost to Allah. The moment you start considering the Niqab, ask yourself just one question: Who should I please- Allah or people?
Once you make that decision, you can follow whether you ought to wear the Niqab or not.
I know sisters, saying it is easy enough. But you know what? Allah can make the difficult easy and the easy difficult. Everything is in His Hands and so long as we place our trust in Him, He and He alone will suffice for us.
Here we are the Hijab care community a.k.a Hijrah community. we come as a muslimah who care with hijab, it’s not about our appearance but our action against the modernity in Hijab and we invite you to be more modesty.
so if you worry about niqabis, come and join with us then you will know and understand. we are one ummah.
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Hijab care Community

In the sunny sunday afternoon with my friends from Hijab care community. (sorry, I blur these picture)
An interview with a young Muslimahs “Wearing Hijab isn’t so hard as you think”.
we remind them about the obligation of wearing Hijab, how to wear Hijab properly and modesty. in that case none of us who tried to judge them about their look but we only socialized them about Hijab, that which will benefit them and bring them to be a modest Muslimah and be more close to Allah through Hijab and make it be our sadakah jariyyah, In sya Allah.

As a muslimah we care and we wanna be your best companions. as Allah said in quran:

** O Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to bring down over themselves [part] of their outer garments. That is more suitable that they will be known and not be abused. And ever is Allah Forgiving and Merciful.(QS. Al Ahzab : 59)

**And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion of] their headcovers over their chests and not expose their adornment … (QS. An Nur : 31)

Hijab care community

Niqab or dust mask

Two week ago I was alone driving my motor bike to go to saturday afternoon majlis. Actually I wasn’t alone that day. I have an appointment with my friend who want to meet me up in majlis. But then once after I arrived in location (the masjid in the roof of the mall so I was in the mall) while I waited a lift to left me into the roof I met with two hijabi girl, they two wore black from head to toe no niqab but dust mask only. Suddenly they asked me “do you wanna go to majlis too?” I said “yes” I smiled at that time but I realized they didn’t know it. Hhh even a child would know this was a weirdly thing. But then we three walked together. So speak about niqab and dust mask, This case was remind me of me before I decided to use niqab. I used to wear dust mask wherever I go. For me wearing dust mask or even niqab is not because you’re muslimah or your culture, but your shyness. Because only the believer has shyness in their heart, because shyness is a part of Iman and Iman is inside their heart. As we known about woman in Islam, that woman is aurah, woman is a bigest fitnah in this world. So no matter how long you’ve been asked for protection to Allah, no matter how hard you talk about stop abusing woman. If you don’t make an effort to protect yourself from fitnah then there is nothing happen. Niqab is our effort to distance us between man and woman, even woman with hijab and dust mask or niqab is protect their dignity as a muslimah. No one can touch them or flirt them freely. So sisters if you have no chance to use niqab, if your country ban the niqab, better you use dust mask. Once you use it for protecting yourself then next you will realize, wearing niqab is calm and help you to increase your Iman, to be more close and close to Allah, to be more better and better, in sya Allah. No worry about what people say, remember every one has their own process.
**back to the story in majlis, as usual when I talk with stranger sometime I forgot to ask their name. After we walked around the mall and arrived at masjid then we sat down. At that time I start to ask their name. Now we’ve been properly introduced. Upss I forgot my friend who has an appointment with me. Unfortunately I couldn’t meet her. The masjid was too crowded with muslimah (I was in the akhwat area). But finally I met her accidentally in musholah on the other floor of the mall. As a niqabi we can recognize our friends by our eyes. Hehe

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